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By Tara McNamara, based on child development research. How do we rate?
age 16+
Drugs, smoking, swearing in dad-daughter addiction drama.
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Parents Need to Know
Parents need to know that Bleeding Love is a father-daughter drama about the generational cycle of addiction. It stars Ewan McGregor and his real-life daughter, Clara. The story depicts how parental abandonment can lead to deep pain in kids, who may eventually turn to substances for relief. It's serious stuff, but laugh-out-loud moments are woven in throughout to keep it light. That said, drug use is explicit—characters snort cocaine—and there's underage drinking, but it's all depicted with an ugly desperation. (Smoking, on the other hand, is portrayed more glamorously.) The main character puts herself in increasingly riskier situations to get the drugs she craves, eventually to the point that viewers may be deeply worried that she's going to be assaulted or trafficked. A sex worker is depicted as a three-dimensional human being, and her job isn't judged. Frequent, very strong language includes "f--k," "c--t," "p---y," "d--kass," and more.
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Drinking, Drugs & Smoking
a lot
One of the two main characters is a 20-year-old woman with a drug dependency. Her father is in recovery and explains the shift from indulging in drugs for fun to the complete loss of control of your life and behavior. While drug and alcohol abuse are depicted, the movie's focus is the negative consequences of both (including withdrawal symptoms). Characters get high, snorting/orally taking a variety of substances. Underage drinking. Passing out. Flashbacks to an overdose. References to being blackout drunk. A visit to an Alcoholics Anonymous meeting. Smoking throughout by the two lead characters.
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Language
a lot
Very strong language, including "asses," "bulls--t," "c--t," "d--kass," "hell," "p---y," "s--t," "shut up," and regular use of "f--k."
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Violence & Scariness
some
The daughter acts self-destructively, which leads to harsh consequences. She gets into a car with a stranger (which is called out several times as being dangerous), and it's clear that there's an expectation of sex in return, with the insinuation that it will happen by force if necessary. Sexual discomfort is expressed through touching of her hair and face and dancing. Gun fired at a target for comedic purpose. Daughter has withdrawal symptoms, including vomiting. Father chases daughter through the desert when she tries to run away.
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Sex, Romance & Nudity
very little
A sex worker propositions a man on the street. See "Violence & Scariness" for additional sex-related content information.
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Positive Messages
some
Themes of family, healing, and reconciliation. Absent parents aren't around because they have problems, not because they don't love their kids.
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Positive Role Models
a little
However late in the game he is, the father is doing what he can to make amends. Now present for his estranged daughter, he's helping manage a crisis and is willing to accept her rage for his absence.
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Diverse Representations
a little
This story focused on a troubled female character and her broken relationship with her father was made by a female director, writers, and producers. The story takes place in New Mexico; while people of color are seen in supporting and background roles, primary characters are White. A sex worker is shown as a helpful, happy young woman with depth, history, and ambition; her job isn't glamorized, but nor is it judged.
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What's the Story?
In BLEEDING LOVE, a 20-year-old woman (Clara McGregor) with a drug dependency is taken on a road trip from San Diego to Santa Fe by her estranged father (Ewan McGregor), who's in recovery for alcohol addiction. During the long drive, he tries to rehabilitate their broken relationship with a hope that he can help rehabilitate her, too.
Is It Any Good?
This authentic New Mexico-set odyssey arrives at the truth and consequences of addiction. Despite all of the data and anecdotal evidence out there that drug use destroys lives, many films (like, say, nearly everything Seth Rogen makes) intentionally or unintentionally send the message that drugs are fun and that everyone's doing them. Films with anti-drug messages don't tend to be received as well, perhaps because teens smell that it's coming from adults, or they just don't think it will happen to them. The young female filmmakers behind Bleeding Love beg to differ, laying it all out: This is what addiction really looks like. There might be "fun" moments, but the consequences of overdoing it can be dire. This drama isn't as alarmist as Requiem for a Dream, but it's the kind of realistic portrayal that Gen Z might actually take to heart—especially the part where blame is put on the father.
Trapped in a truck as they drive through the desert, the absentee father (neither he nor his daughter are ever named) can no longer run from his kid or his past; he's forced to confront the damage he's inflicted. It may serve as a reminder to parents how our decisions can damage our children's perceptions of themselves. And for teens, the fallout is a bit of a shake: It can happen to you. The ultimate message is that any temporary fun from drugs isn't worth the potential fall, and making your parents pay for all of their mistakes could cost you everything.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about how Bleeding Love portrays drug use/dependency. Do you consider it a warning or a cautionary tale, or is substance use made to look appealing in any way? What are the consequences? Are they realistic?
Discuss how cigarette smoking is depicted: The father mentions the danger but lights them both beautifully when they smoke. Is smoking glamorized here?
The father and daughter reconnect over a song they used to sing together and a warm memory of a baseball game they attended together. Does your family have a song or activity that "brings you back" to a happy place?
How do the filmmakers use the camera to show the emotional divide between the father and daughter? How does it change as they start to work out their issues? How does that affect the viewing experience?
How does the director convey that the daughter is in danger when she goes to the stranger's house? Discuss what they actually say or show, versus what you think might happen. How was that achieved?
Movie Details
- In theaters : February 16, 2024
- On DVD or streaming : February 16, 2024
- Cast : Clara McGregor, Ewan McGregor
- Director : Emma Westenberg
- Inclusion Information : Female directors, Female actors, Female writers
- Studio : Vertical Entertainment
- Genre : Drama
- Run time : 96 minutes
- MPAA rating : NR
- Last updated : May 19, 2024
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